Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 4 years. I love him with all my heart but lately things have been getting worse between us. He has been putting me down a lot, calling me names like whore or hoe. He calls all my friends whores too when they are married and are nice. We get into a lot of fights because he says I clean the house like a white trash women, and that I need to be perfect like him, and he will keep yelling until it is perfect. When i get really mad, sometimes I'll push him away or hit his arm and he does it right back not enough to leave marks but enough for it to hurt. Are these bad signs?
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I love him but I cant tell if he is abusive
Re: I love him but I cant tell if he is abusive by: Anonymous
Of course it is a bad sign. It is very possible that you are with a sociopath/psycopath. There is no cure for these people, and they enjoy abusing/humiliating people with no real sense of remorse. J
ust get out of the relationship as soon as you can, before it gets any worse. Because it WILL get worse and you will only get hurt more.
Jul 07, 2011
I need help !!!!!! by: amy
i really like this guy and we go to the same school and karate club. I really want to tell him i really like him. But I'm too nervous to tell him in case he will never like me at all again. That's why i really need help so much !!!!!!!!!! Please help me.
May 10, 2011
HES ABUSIVE by: Anonymous
HE KNOWS WHAT HE'S DOING TO YOU. HE'S GOING TOO FAR. LITTLE BY LITTLE ALL IT TAKES IS FOR YOU TO PUSH HIS BUTTONS AND PUSH HIM OVER THE EDGE. HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS OR HURTING YOU. HE IS GOING THROUGH THINGS IT SEEMS, AND HE IS TAKING IT ALL OUT ON YOU. FOR SOME REASON HE THINKS HE DOESN'T NEED TO RESPECT YOU.
DARLING MOVE ON AND FORGET HIM AND HIS ABUSE. THERE'S LITTLE LOVE HERE.
May 02, 2011
i love him but i cant tell him by: sarah
Now i love a guy but i cant tell him no matter what happens. i have a strong felling that he feels the same about me but i'm still not sure. So it's impossible for me to tell him and now i really need help<<<
Apr 13, 2011
leo82 by: Anonymous
Sorry to hear this but you need to leave. You deserve to be happy to be treated with respect. Don't waste so much of this precious life.
Aug 18, 2010
Love don't love you by: Shady
Sweetheart, get out of it now. He will be using you as a punching bag soon enough. I have never been in an abusive relationship. I nipped it in the bud before it got started. I ended a five year relationship in a day.
One time is enough to let me know love does not hurt, whether it be physical or mental. He did test me and he got tested right back. I loved him and it took some time to get him off my mind and out of my heart. It hurt because I loved him so much. But when reality kicked in....I said I love me more. See you later...bye
Jul 31, 2010
yes these are bad signs by: Anonymous
This is not good. Read my life on God is my keeper, I submitted another tonight on living a nightmare. Please read them. You cannot let him do this to you, you are worth more than that.
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