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it all went wrong

by aleena tx

At first everything was perfect...i thought he was the one and never thought he would hit me...It all started when i was talking on the phone to an old friend that just got outta jail which was a man. My boyfriend was outside so i didn't think he knew i was on the phone. But he saw me through the window. When he came in, he asked who i was talking to. i told him it was my girlfriend cuz i knew he would be mad if i talked to another guy. He looked on the phone and saw i was lying. He grabbed me by my neck n demanded me to tell em who it was. i refused n just started crying.





Then everything went back to normal til one night he stayed the night at a friends house n i was texting friends n forgot to erase them all...there was one of a guy... we was at a friends house so i tried to sneak out the house n leave in my car but he ran outside n took my keys. i knew he was very mad n was gonna hit me so i waited 4 him to go inside n i went walking down the road. He ran after me n drug me back to the house, then he drove us home. When we got there, he started slapping me repeatedly n then left. i thought it was all my fault so when he asked to come back, i said ok.

Then he started cheating on me all the time n the girls would text n call my phone 4 him.When i asked him about it, he would beat me to the floor n tell me don't question him...


By that time i realized our relationship was all wrong n i wanted to end it... He wasn't having it. He would keep my keys n phone n wouldn't let me go outside w/o em cuz he thought i would leave... Every time i tried to break it off, he would slap me from one side of the house to the other...til one day i was fed up n had my brother n his friends meet me at the house n i told my bf it was over. So he came to the house n i had all his clothes packed. He couldn't hit me cuz all the people were there. i was relieved but it wasn't over.

I met the guy that i'm with now n we started hanging out... My ex heard about it n saw me at the store around the corner from where i lived. i walked out n he slapped me n was calling me a bitch n a ho. We just started duking it out in front of the store in front of everyone n no one did anything. Cars were passin n no one stopped. i was very afraid of him after that n avoided him til me n my man now got together n he let em know what was up. Then my ex started acting scary around us!!!!

I'm not afraid anymore n i'd never deal with another man like that again...I'm glad i went through that so i'll never have to again but it was a bad experience

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