To leave or not to leave . . . that is the question-

My husband of nearly 1-1/2 years has lost his position in the Pacific. He would like to begin practicing in New York where he is also licensed. He has family there, I don't.

I am well established in way of employment, finances, family/friends right here in the islands where we met and married. It is his first marriage, not mine. It took me 9-years to finally decide I wanted to be married once again (we are in our mid50's).

I am very much in love with him. However, it seems there are far more cons than pros if I leave everything behind to embark on this new venture.

Hence, my dilemma.