Am having a financial issue and it looking like my finance wants to leave me

by Stephen
(Lapai,niger state,nigeria)

I have built a two year relationship despite our language barriers, and i want to plan settlement with her in about 2years time but it seems things are changing, like the parents are refusing and she is not telling me things.

All she started saying is she is not ready for marriage that she needs to pray and ask God permission, its beginning to scare me, now am thinking of working away because than to feel disappointed later, but she still claims she loves me,
Please i need an advise

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