A Good Marriage Counselor
Can Help You
Save Your Marriage
Learn How to Communicate
How to Argue So You Both Win
Regain Emotional and Physical Intimacy
Survive Affairs
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Eugene Kayser LMFT
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You know something is wrong in your relationship. You're fighting all the time. Sometimes viciously, calling each other names. Something about your spouse has changed. You are not emotionally and physically intimate with each other. But you don't know what to do.
Let me help you assess what’s wrong and what’s right in your relationship, give you some useful marriage strategies and tools, and a safe place to work out your problems.
What Makes A Good Marriage Counselor?
I've worked hard to become a good marriage counselor. But after years of post-graduate trainings and seminars on marriage therapy, it seemed like there were a lot of couples that couldn’t be helped. So I kept looking.
Then I came across the work of Dr. John Gottman, and I’ve been using the Gottman Method Couples Therapy now for a few years. It is the most effective marriage therapy system I know, and it's research-based.
What's The Gottman Couples Method?
Dr. Gottman spent 40 years studying couples in his “Love Lab” in Seattle. He filmed them talking and fighting, measured pulse and breathing rates, and took blood samples to measure neurochemicals that are produced under stress. He got to the point that he could predict which couples would stay married with an accuracy of 94%.
Out of all this research, he and Julie Gottman developed a therapy system that starts with a thorough assessment to see where a couple's strengths and weaknesses are, and a toolkit of techniques that can change how you interact with each other.
The Four Marriage Poisons
Gottman found four factors couples had that could lead to the destruction of a marriage. He called them
The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse
Contempt, Defensiveness, Criticism, and Stonewalling.
And he came up with four antidotes to these marriage poisons:
Complaint instead of Criticism..
Appreciation instead of Contempt.
Taking Responsibility instead of Defensiveness.
Self-soothing instead of Stonewalling.
And he built a successful couples therapy method that detoxifies these poisons, and let's you reconnect.
Let me help you stay married
and improve your relationship.
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Gene Kayser uses the Gottman Method Couples Therapy system with his clients, with it's proven techniques & strategies for couples who want to save their relationship. This is a "nuts and bolts" approach based on 40 years of research & treatment.
For insight into this therapy, click on the video below to hear Dr. John Gottman on What Make Marriage Work
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You always maintained your impartiality with us. You encouraged Rita to be more assertive in stating what she wanted to get from your counseling sessions, as well as what she wanted to get from the relationship. You taught both of us better communication between ourselves, which lead to an emotional comfort level between us that didn't exist before. You took control of the direction of the session if things were not moving along. Thanks so much for helping us." Rita and Mark |
