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Mar 14, 2022

I don’t think my husband loves me or even likes me

Driving back from a wedding I brought the uncomfortable question so you love me? Married 20y and 4 children he said yes. But you don’t want to do anything

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Mar 14, 2022


My husband has addictive behaviors that I have come to accept. I am currently attending Gam-anon, working on my healing and recovery. My husband is not

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Mar 14, 2022

Wife forcing me to take home decision against my will

It may sound like a very small issue but past few days my wife has been insisting to shift to a locality which I'm not willing to. Here she is saying if

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Mar 14, 2022

How bad are these signals coming from my wife?

I’d been going along feeling like our relationship was pretty good. I thought we had a strong connection when we could get away and when we do things together.

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Mar 14, 2022

My husband called me fat

My weight has always been an issue. When we got married I was 136 pounds. 17 years and 2 kids later, I am 187 pounds. I have struggled with my weight

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Mar 14, 2022

Hurtful words

About 4 years ago my wife and I had been married 20 years and we were talking about growing up. I made a comment that my older brother got all of the

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Mar 14, 2022

New wife not accepting my kids, alcohol involved

After a 4 year dating relationship, my wife and I got married. We are both free spirits, fun people. Awesome people. We all know nothing is perfect in

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Nov 16, 2021

Don't know what his job was

My wife & I went through couples counseling when we lived in Louisville, KY back in the mid 1980's. Guy called himself a pastoral counselor even had a

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Nov 16, 2021


Hi, I married a guy that was not a resident or citizen of the USA; he is a UK and Mexico citizen. He was here visiting his family that lives very close

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Nov 16, 2021

I have no clue what to think

I am at a point where I don't know if I am over-reacting or not. It is a complicated story. I have never had a lot of luck in relationships but by the

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Nov 16, 2021

Should I Be Concerned ?

So my husband of 25 years has a habit of placing himself in inappropriate situations regarding other women then claiming innocence. (Ex; he’s had close

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Nov 16, 2021

is my wife cheatng?

my wife is the mother of two and 40 plus but I suspect she is attracted to her colleague. I have installed spy software in her mobile and monitoring her

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Aug 23, 2021

Communication Struggles

I am beyond my wits at this point. My wife has massive anxiety and has so many triggers. I’m trying my best to avoid those triggers so she can improve

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Aug 23, 2021

I shut down

My husband is telling me I am hurting him when I shut down emotionally. I know its not healthy but I cant stop. We have an awesome relationship and communicate

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Aug 23, 2021


I have been with my husband for 30 years. When I first came into the family, his brothers wife blanked me for a long time until she realized I was a long-term

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