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Feb 22, 2024

Negative Environment and heavy drinking

My husband of 20 years puts me down a lot. He makes me feel that nothing I do is good enough, in particular around preparing meals for the family. I do

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Feb 05, 2024


Hello. I am having a very hard day and really do need to know how others view this and what they think and feel if it was them. My husband usually keeps

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Feb 01, 2024

Parenting - Why be angry at other

Wife cheated 2nd time on me that I know of, caught her but won't admit. We have 7 and 6 yr olds. In laws, and wife control everything, against me, its

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Jan 22, 2024

Seeking for advice

my husband has developed a behaviour of being absent minded forr the few hours he spend at home with myself and the kids. He seems not involved in family

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Jan 02, 2024

Wife no longer wants sex

My wife and I have been married almost 5 years. Before we started dating she told me that she had a hysterectomy. I thought it wouldn't be an issue. But

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Jan 02, 2024

My wife admitted to an affair she had 28 years ago and I can’t get it out of my head.

My wife has asked for forgiveness but I can’t give it. I want to forgive her but I can’t. I asked for all the details and that’s all I can think about.

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Dec 27, 2023

Need advice from non loved one

My husband and I have been together for 19 years and married 10 with two kids 5 and 3. I am in a situation that all started 6 years ago and I am torn and

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Nov 09, 2023

Old issue that wont go away

Many years ago my wife left me and over the course of the five weeks she was gone, saw another man. We reconciled and I found out about him later and

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Oct 09, 2023

Always misinterpreted.

My wife always gets really angry when I don't agree with her especially when I disagree with what she says I meant by something I said. For example she

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Sep 26, 2023

Marriages of convenience

Am I wrong when I say my marriage has gotten to the point of convenience only and I think I’m ok with this?

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Sep 19, 2023

Why does my husband maintain friendships with people who disrespect me?

My husband and I are older and remarried two years. He has one woman friend in particular who approached me to tell me she has a crush on him and wanted

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Sep 01, 2023

Been making it work for 13 years

So today was the latest in the on and off fights my wife has. She is a medical professional and had herself admitted to hospital for a non-serious issue

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Aug 24, 2023

My Journey through Life, Loss, and Fatherhood.

I have been through a lot and I want to share my life journey: Boy, I haven't shared my life experiences online until recently. I am more of a private

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Aug 24, 2023

Acting Strsngr Husband

When Covid hit we realized we should be close to families so my husband and I moved back to Chicago. I have an aunt who is 82 years old and divorced. My

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Aug 24, 2023

My wife's ADD and perfectionism is driving our family apart

We have been struggling as a family for the last several years. I was listening to a clinical psychologist describing the root problem with ADD: it is

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Eugene Kayser, lic. Marriage & Family Therapist

418 Stump Rd., Montgomeryville, PA 18936


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