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Nov 16, 2021

Don't know what his job was

My wife & I went through couples counseling when we lived in Louisville, KY back in the mid 1980's. Guy called himself a pastoral counselor even had a

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Nov 16, 2021


Hi, I married a guy that was not a resident or citizen of the USA; he is a UK and Mexico citizen. He was here visiting his family that lives very close

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Nov 16, 2021

I have no clue what to think

I am at a point where I don't know if I am over-reacting or not. It is a complicated story. I have never had a lot of luck in relationships but by the

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Nov 16, 2021

Should I Be Concerned ?

So my husband of 25 years has a habit of placing himself in inappropriate situations regarding other women then claiming innocence. (Ex; he’s had close

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Nov 16, 2021

is my wife cheatng?

my wife is the mother of two and 40 plus but I suspect she is attracted to her colleague. I have installed spy software in her mobile and monitoring her

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Aug 23, 2021

Communication Struggles

I am beyond my wits at this point. My wife has massive anxiety and has so many triggers. I’m trying my best to avoid those triggers so she can improve

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Aug 23, 2021

I shut down

My husband is telling me I am hurting him when I shut down emotionally. I know its not healthy but I cant stop. We have an awesome relationship and communicate

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Aug 23, 2021


I have been with my husband for 30 years. When I first came into the family, his brothers wife blanked me for a long time until she realized I was a long-term

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Aug 23, 2021

Am I Wrong... Seeking Clarity on relation with Husband

Dear reader, It is true when they say that clarity is best sought when you see things from outside .. and hence I need your advice and solution. I have

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Jul 20, 2021

Wife in despair

Hi I have been with my partner for 9 years and we got married during the pandemic last August. Shortly after he told me he didn’t want anymore children

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Jul 20, 2021

Am having a financial issue and it looking like my finance wants to leave me

I have built a two year relationship despite our language barriers, and i want to plan settlement with her in about 2years time but it seems things are

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Jul 06, 2021

Marriage without trust

So me and my husband are married for almost 5 years now. Few months ago I “cheated” on him for flirting and talking with a guy, but the guy and I never

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Jul 06, 2021


I'm a married man of four years. My wife is bipolar. It's not an easy marriage and it is my 1st. Everything is always my fault. I can never do anything

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Jul 06, 2021

Working dad stuck with stay at home stoner

Together 11yrs, married 6, one son 5yrs. My wife is a stay at home mom, she wakes up around 1pm goes to bed late and smokes pot all day long, first thing

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Jul 06, 2021

I am confused and unsure about a married female coworker intentions....

Hi, I am a happily married Man, 7 yrs. She is a married Female, 8 yrs. She has 2 children (1 about 6 mos ago) We are coworkers together, (although after

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