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Everybody seems to have relationship problems. They may be with your "significant other", your kids or your parents. And sound relationship advice is hard to come by. Which is why we offer this forum for your relationship questions and answers.

Tell Us What's Bothering You! Here's the place to talk about it, and to ask for help from a couples counselor and others who've been there.

Please note: The advice and comments on this forum are not intended to be clinical treatment or constitute therapy. Contact a licensed marriage and family therapist if you need clinical help.

Tell Us What's Bothering You!

Here's the place to talk about it, and to ask for help from a couples counselor and others who've been there.

Please note: The advice and comments on this forum are not intended to be clinical treatment or constitute therapy. Contact a licensed marriage and family therapist if you need clinical help.

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Marriage issues 
Hello. My name is Jessica I am having a very hard time in my new marriage. I have a ton of trust issues and insecurities. I would love to chat with anyone …

Will couple's therapy help my relationship? 
My (26F) boyfriend (28M) and I have been together for 3 years, living together for about 1 year. We moved in together when we relocated across the country. …

Brother inlaw moved in 
My brother in-law came over 2 months ago to take a shower because he was basically homeless, then he never left. The day he came over for what I had thought …

Scared I made a mistake getting married 
I am 30 years old and have been married for 2 years. When I met my husband I knew he was brought up in church and is conservative, but I felt he hid …

Do I continue with this or not... 
I am questioning whether or not I should stay in my marriage. On the surface we seem a happy couple, however, we have a lot of issues. I believe my husband …

Sexless and Desperate 
My wife and I have been together for 9 years. Married for 6, with 3 children. She’s the only woman I’ve ever been sexually intimate with. I know she had …

How do I survive a sexless marriage? 
This is Ananth, I am a married man, 33 years old, and I face a problem in my sex life. My wife and I perfectly compliment each other, there is lots …

Is my family crazy, should I cut them off?  
Hi, please help me figure out my family or what’s going on here. I live in my family home with my mother and brother, the house belongs to everyone. I …

I feel uncomfortable with husband's female friends 
I have been with my husband for 3 1/2 years and married for almost 2. I sponsored him and his daughter to come to Canada. I relized that I have made a …

Domestic Violence after 20 years 
My husband and I have been for the most part happily married for 20 years. Never been physical with each other although we have had our share of other …

How do I forgive my soulmate for cheating? 
We have been married for 16 years, two kids and have (or had) an amazing relationship. I love this woman more than anything and feel completely blindsided …

Unfaithful  
Husband had an affair for 3 months, now claims he did not enjoy it and felt sorry for the other women. All the love messages was just to let her feel better …

She still loves me but she is no longer in love with me 
Hi,I'm looking for advice as I can't get my head around what's happening to us. My wife and I have been married for 27 years, we have 3 grown up children …

My husband doesn't want to spend time with my family 
Hi there, I need some advice. My husband usually has a hard time spending time with my family. My family and I are very close and we see each other once …

Discordant sexual desires and all the trouble that comes with it 
The quick rundown: I'm that typical guy in an amazing marriage that's perfect besides the sex life. Her libido is very low. I made sure my needs for sex …

Husband too close to his sister in law.  
Need help. I am breaking down emotionally and mentally. I feel my husband doesn't love me anymore. We've been married for 3 years now. He is working …

Questioning  
So, long story short. My boyfriend has 3 charges of simple assault against me as well as 2 indictable offenses (terroristic threats and criminal restraint). …

Supportive Girlfriend 
I have been with my boyfriend for seven years now everything about him is great except he is addicted to adult apps and online websites where he can interact …

Emotional Affair?  
Hello everyone. I am mentally not well and I need some help. Almost one year ago my husband accepted a phone number from a female coworker. He did …

My sister in law complains about me to my husband and in laws. How should I handle this? 
I am an Indian woman married for 3.5 years now. My husband is sweet, loving and gem of person. He has two elder sisters and a brother. My husband is the …

I feel like my husband puts alot of pressure on me by the way he speaks to me.  
My husband seems to blame everything that happens in our life on me. When I had my first daughter, as she got older and we had to work out parenting styles …

Wife Stays with widowed brothers-in-law 
My wife is Indian (Hindu) and we have been married 32 years. Her sister passed away some years ago, and her family offered my wife her sister's daycare …

missing my ex girlfriend after 19 years and married for the same amount of time/considering divorce now 
Hello folks, I am facing a strange emotional problem that makes me feel really frustrated and sad. I cannot even explain it well but this is real since …

Should I give up on my husband now? 
Hello, I am an Indian wife married for 2 years, staying with Indian husband in USA. I really need advice on my current relationship situation. To ask …

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wife is keeping a secret 
Hi, I’m struggling and need some advice. I’m 49 and have been married for 17 years. We’ve had our ups and downs but generally have a very good marriage …

My daughter in law is having an affair ?? 
Both she and my son are 45 and have been together for just over 20 years. I received an e-mail from someone who has sent me evidence that she has been …

To Marry or Not to Marry 
Hello, I am a 49 year old divorced woman, and engaged to marry my 46 year old fiancé, who is also divorced. We are planning to marry in about 8 months... …

I lost all my self confidence after getting married! Help me! 
Mine was an arranged marriage. We met once and got engaged in our next meeting. We never met each other during courtship cos he was in the US. We used …

Am i over-reacting? Please help.. 
We have been married for about 6 years and have a 5 year old daughter together. My husband has a lot of female friends and i am usually fine with that. …

I messed up 
The other night, my fiance of 3 years went to bed to read her book while I stayed up and watched TV. I made a terrible decision, out of boredom, to relieve …

His Ex Sharing inappropriate information with me 
Hi! I'm in a weird position. My fiance's Ex and I are cordial. Every now and then she'll say things to him that are less than kind, but for the most …

Fiance cheated on me with my friend while I was in same room  
So me and my gf have been dating for three years and have a two year old daughter and we have been engaged for 5 months. Well one Saturday, we decided …

Could you please advise me whats happening with my husband? Please save my marriage.  
I am an Indian girl recently married & by arranged. I am doing my PhD in the UK & my husband works in the US. We got married this June and I was with my …

Not a question anymore.of do I want to leave... it's a question of when. 
I've been in a relationship for 8 years. I met this man when I was 20 at a job I had. He is 10 yrs older than me and already had 4 kids with another woman. …

Confused on what to do after being abused  
So I have been married for almost 4 years, we have one son and she is currently pregnant. I don't know what to do. We started dating after high school …

My boyfriend has become very close to his sons girlfriend. 
My boyfriend is in his sixties, as am I. She lives with his son on the property. The son is very irresponsible. Does not work. Gets in trouble, etc. …

im just confused  
Ok. i've been with my finance for about 15 years now, we have two beautiful daughters together. He use to be so kind and so sweet and he would treat me …

He doesn't get it 
He doesn't get it. I been telling him since he laid his hands on our daughter and I got in his face. He said he didn't push her hard, however she had …

abusive relationship? 
Am I in a abusive relationship? he takes the lighter and gets close to me and tries to light it spark it. yesterday he took it and put the lighter next …

i'm so confused. how can I fix myself to fix my relationship? 
I live with my boyfriend. we have been together for 5 years now and have known each other for 15 years. we have 2 kids and are planning on getting married. …

the way he confusses me 
Well I've been here before so this should not be hard for me to do, but it really is because I have now come to know that when it comes to love, …

I am confused am I wrong 
I was a single parent of 3 two boys and a girl when I meet my current husband. He was perfect as far as I saw. He would help me with the chores, take the …

break up of 11 years  
i am 31 and my so-called ex is 41. we broke up in august but we have been together for 11 years. after he left me, we still talked every day. and now …

Am I in a abusive relationship? 
Am I in a abused relationship with my husband? I am a person who talks a lot but all of a sudden very quiet. My husband is a very caring man and responsible …

My husband is cyber cheating in secret 
I am not sure what to do… I just found out that my husband has been talking with a bunch of women online as well as sharing genital/full body pictures …

MARRIED FEMALE 
MY HUSBANDS OF 17 YEARS IS HAVING AN AFFAIR AND WANTS A DIVORCE. WE HAVE A SPECIAL DAUGHTER WHO HAS DOWNS SYNDROME AND IS TWELVE YEARS OLD. HE IS ALSO …

Should I stay married???? 
Long story shortened. . . I've been married for 10 1/2 yrs and have 4 kids with him. We have had a horrible marriage. Abuse of all sorts, separated more …

Pregnant Woman 
I've dated my partner for 3 months, then got pregnant. After that he lost his job, was arrested came out of jail, seemed to be lost in life, no longer …

What is the problem ? 
i have been with this guy for 5 yrs. just in the past 8 months he hasn't wanted to have sex or even kiss me like he used to do.

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My relationship overall with my boyfriend 
It's a long story, but here we go. It all started two years ago ... when i first met my bf we just automatically hit it off!! Even though we only had one …

He's just not that into me... 
I am 25. He is 31. After 3 and a half years, I ended the relationship for multiple reasons, but mainly because his actions simply don't show that he cares …

All Guilty 
Hey there, I am in a relationship from the past year and we have already decided to get married. The problem here is that he knows about only one …

Is it normal to be neglected by his family and friends? 
When ur in a relationship, aren't u supposed to be close to the family and have mutual friends? Me n my bf have been together 3 years on and off. We've …

TIRED 
TONIGHT MY BOYFRIEND FLIPPED BECAUSE I DID NOT MAKE DINNER AND THEN TOOK IT OUT ON MY SON

Am I The Crazy One? 
My boyfriend and i have been together for 2years now. The first year was amazing and he was everything to me. We couldn't get enough of each other. We …

Am I Wrong? 
My boyfriend of two years just asked me for space on Saturday because he feels verbally abused by me. It came about when he didn't answer my calls the …

Am Confused and Devastated 
Am a married woman and I got married June 2011. Exactly 3 months after my wedding, my husband traveled to USA for his MSc. Since then I haven't seen him. …

I Feel So Betrayed 
My partner of ten years has become best buddies with my ex-partner, the father of my two adult children. He has even employed him. And i have also discovered …

Forty-something and I know what I SHOULD do, but afraid to do it. 
I have been in a positive relationship with a wonderful man for four years. I love him, but I realize my love is starting to deteriorate, at least I think …

Marital Problem 
I feel very depressed. Mine is a long story. I am 26 yrs, Indian, married for 5 yrs and have 2 kids. Our marriage is been through problems since the …

Married But Not Married 
I married two years ago, but at one year and 2 months of marriage we are separated. In this relationship we not have any kids, which is a good thing. …

I Feel Depressed 
I just got married last Feb., and I had a baby; he's now 5 months old. I have been staying at home watching the baby. My husband has been resenting …

My Husband Has Retired at 46 
My husband of 16 years just resigned from his job, cashed out his pension and spends his days washing and ironing. He is irritable and angry and open …

BF loves me (really), but doesnt want to ever get married :( 
I have been in an exclusive relationship with my BF of 3 yrs, who is a wonderful man to me. He loves me dearly, as I do him. He has made me a part of his …

Should i move again so my husband can see his son more? 
I have been with my husband for 6 years; his son is 7. My husband is in the army and has been seeing his son one to two weekends a month when his job …

It happened a year ago. I still feel ashamed and upset about this issue.. 
Hope to hear your point of view on this relationship story. I wish to bring this up even though it happened a year ago.. The guy who is your boyfriend.... …

Break Up 
i almost broke up with my fiance 1 week ago because of my son, which ls not his. The reason is i told him how my son has started to do things which are …

Abused or just a needy partner? 
So when is a needy partner an abuser? Having just answered yes to 20 out of the 25 "am i abused" questions, i think i can say i am being controlled. …

To leave or not to leave . . . that is the question- 
My husband of nearly 1-1/2 years has lost his position in the Pacific. He would like to begin practicing in New York where he is also licensed. He has …

NON-PERSON 
I feel like a non-person in my husbands life. He is 33 years old, I am 35. He would rather spend his days with his buddies than he would with me. I look …

Relationship issues Not rated yet
I've been in a relationship for 4 years now and we are planning for marriage. My boyfriend provides for my needs and never let me lack anything. But he …

Affair resulted in a child Not rated yet
My husband had an affair and the affair partner had a baby the end of March. The AP waiting until she was 7 months to tell my husband. We were doing …

Spouce cheating  Not rated yet
I found out my husband was flirting on Facebook with women. When I confronted him he got nothing to say and he admitted it. I’m very depressed and don’t …

Forgiving too much Not rated yet
I had a pre-planned family vacation before I met my boyfriend. We were together 3 months when I left for that vacation. While I was gone he reconnected …

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Sex has stopped in bedroom....is she cheating Not rated yet
After 24 years of marriage and doing fun things together, oral sex has stopped both ways. no longer seems to enjoy sex. we are down to two times a month. …

Rock and a hardplace Not rated yet
My husband and I have been married 3 years and together 7. During this time my adult son has been a drug addict. He got clean for a few years then relapsed. …

Is this female into my husband? Not rated yet
Is it weird that a single female friend of my husband’s handed him the Sex at Dawn book as she was leaving our house? She was a coworker of my husband’s …

17 years of unhappy marriage. Not rated yet
Hello there beautiful souls. I was browsing the net for couple forum and it brought me here. I'm Jenny, been married for 17 years now. In this 17 years …

Mrs Not rated yet
I am married for the 2nd time to a man who adores me and my 2 sons who he took over raising. I find it difficult that he gets annoyed at my kids using …

Soul Sister  Not rated yet
My husband went to Massage Therapist and had to get completely naked for the massage.. he hid the fact that he went and I found out because I saw a text …

Confused...need advice Not rated yet
Hello, I've been divorced for about 5 years. Met a woman and we've been dating for a little over a year. We are in love and talking about marriage. …

Sexless marriage Not rated yet
Married for seven years with three kids but my issue is there is no sex in my marriage. It's been two years since we had sex. I have tried everything …

separated and feel like im chasing Not rated yet
so we have been seperated for 2 months now. I don't see much progress in my husband. He seems to be drifting away .Do i just let him go or do i keep offering …

Please help Not rated yet
I'm divorced for about 1 year and have a 3yo daughter. I started dating this guy for 1 month and things were going great. He knew about my past. But sometimes …

I can see how much my wife still trap on her past marriage.And she let me feel im less important. Not rated yet
We are married for 6 years now. My wife let me feel less important, she don't even respect me she yell at me,telling all the bad words that you can imagine. …

Emotionally Abusive Marriage, no one to talk to Not rated yet
Hello there! I've been with my husband for almost 17 years, we have 3 young children. Over the years my husband developed a serious mental issue with doctors, …

Need intimacy help Not rated yet
Okay so me and my wife kiley are newlyweds, well tonight she asked me if I wanted to do a porn. My first thought was too say yes but I avoided. I asked …

Why did I snoop? Not rated yet
Have you ever heard the phrase be careful what you wish for? Well I certainly didn’t wish to find what I have when I snooped on my husbands phone. We …

Confused and indecisive  Not rated yet
So I am a 28 yr old female, married for last 3 yrs.initially after my marriage we moved in with my mother in law and my husband sort of got the idea that …

Feeling unappreciated  Not rated yet
How do I let my wife know I would like more attention or recognition for the things I do, without nagging her or asking for praise?

New wife is hiding alimony payments from her ex Not rated yet
New wife is hiding alimony payments from her ex. We’ve been married almost 3 years and she never told me she is receiving payments. I found emails from …

Daughter Avoids me after Divorce Not rated yet
My ex-husband just passed away. We divorced 8 years ago due to his request after being married for 30 years. I found out after the fact that he was in …

Love is not enough Not rated yet
Me and my husband is married for almost 4years. We have a daughter who is now 1year old. I love my husband but i don't know i guess love is ain't enough.. …

I need advice please I’m so depressed right now  Not rated yet
My name is James. I have a wife that likes to nag and she does not respect me out of that I tried to cheat and she caught me we starting having issue every …

Husband Out of Work/wants to move family out of state Not rated yet
My husband and I have been married for several years and have a 3 year old daughter. We live near both our families and the grandparents are heavily involved …

Brian  Not rated yet
Is it wrong to change into pajamas in my bedroom in my house with the door open and adult kids down stairs?

Spending Time Together Not rated yet
My wife feels that I spend time with her because I have to and not because I want to. When I am spending time with her she always feels that I would rather …

Wife keeps accusing me  Not rated yet
A year ago my wife accused me of having an affair with my sister. Now she has just asked me if my ex's baby who i'm guessing is around 4 is mine. I haven't …

Husband won't think of financial future Not rated yet
My and my husband are in our early fifties. He refuses to get any type of life insurance policy and will not put any money aside for funeral expenses …

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Moved from another country Not rated yet
So my husband and I are from another country, met in college I moved to the US in 7th semester, we ended up breaking up. Like 2 or 3 years later I decided …

How do I show my husband that I'm smart? Not rated yet
I have an MA in the humanities and am the editor of a publication. My husband has a BA in the sciences and does environmental work. Not surprisingly, he …

Is this normal in a marriage  Not rated yet
I have been married to my husband for 15 years. And every time I say I love you to him it isn’t true. He is always underneath stress he says. Or he is …

Advice needed for an idiot. Not rated yet
Hi all I’m in a bit of a dilemma and need some advice. I recently ended a 7 year relationship out of impulse because we was stuck in a routine and we …

Elderly couple with differing sex drives Not rated yet
My husband & I were high school sweet-hearts & have been married 45 years.There have been ups & downs but he's the only man I love & have had sex with. …

Extremely depressed over my relationship (we just made 10 years) Not rated yet
Hi there, I will try my best to keep things brief, since I really want to get as much constructive assistance as possible. My spouse and I just made …

Bigguy Not rated yet
Don't know what to do anymore. In normal conversations or arguments my wife insists I'm wrong or I was in the wrong when incidents from the present or …

Marital Advice Not rated yet
I'm a 28 year old man and have been in a relationship with someone who is 33 year old. It's been 5 years now. I d like to seek advice is 5 year in today's …

Covid -19 affecting my trust issues with boyfriend (Sorry long) Not rated yet
Dating my boyfriend about 1 ½ years. For the most part we have a good relationship. We have both been cheated on in our previous relationships (My x …

problem with my crush Not rated yet
so this girl i have talking to for 4 months,she tells me she is interested in me but she has blocked my number but she is still replying to my texts on …

19 year relationship failing  Not rated yet
So we are high school sweethearts. Together 19 yrs. We have 3 children 15, 11 and 5. We have had plenty of ups and downs. About 13 years ago he would …

Husband doesn't want to be with me anymore  Not rated yet
Me and my husband have been together 4 years, married for just over a year. Our relationship has never been perfect, he accuses me of lying and cheating …

Wife's Serious Weight Problem and Jealousy. Constant Fighting. Not rated yet
My wife and I have been married almost 20 years. During that time, she has steadily gained weight, lots of it. We fight over it constantly. Diets, gyms, …

Sleeping with Husband after knowing his cheating on me  Not rated yet
We have been married for 6 1/2 years. I'm getting ready to move out bcus his cheating on me and other issues. I am going to divorce him. But i still love …

I just don’t know what to do.  Not rated yet
My husband and I have been married for about 4 years and have a 1 year old little girl. For 3 of those years I was in college and worked part time (for …

Wife had an emotional affair Not rated yet
My wife had an emotional affair with a co-worker years ago. They were spending enough time together that many other workers thought they were having an …

Sex Not rated yet
The wife, who is 50 and has menopause said she could go through the rest of her life without sex but she'll do it for me because she loves me. No man …

Is it just in my imagination. Not rated yet
So do I see a marriage counselor, a therapist or a shrink? I'm so confused in my 31 year marriage I'm beginning to think I'm actually going crazy. …

Wife with no desire for physical affection Not rated yet
I'm not even talking about the bedroom. No hugs, no kisses...nothing. I confronted her about my desire/need for physical touch in my realizing an expression …

Totally Broken Not rated yet
I just found on my husbands phone that he has several accounts on adult websites and has paid for them and sent money to women for nude pictures. My …

Husband cheated Not rated yet
My husband had a 4 month affair on me. I found out something was going on in the middle of october. He denied it until about the middle of November then …

Is this normal Not rated yet
I have been in a relationship for 8 years. We have a 5 year old son. I always wanted more children but my wife decided she only wanted one as she did not …

My husband is attracted to me and cares for me but doesn’t love me  Not rated yet
2 months ago my husband and I had a conflict, afterwards he said that he wanted to separate because he didn’t love me as much as before. Today he said …

Husband sleeping on the couch, every, single. night Not rated yet
Hi everyone, I am new to this group. And hoping/praying that someone will be able to help. If not, I am just happy to share. I have been married over …

Problem with trust my husband  Not rated yet
I have 2 kids. I am house wife and take care of kids for 10 years. I not have job for 10 years because I not trust my husband stay home alone with kids. …

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Sister in law eing passive aggresive Not rated yet
Hi, I come from a close knit family and my brother and I are very close. So its extra sensitive for me because i don't want him to get hurt. My brother …

We seem rub each other off, on the wrong Not rated yet
Between me and my husband, every action or comments seems to receive negative automatic response. The very first reaction Is negative. This has turned …

Feel so unloved and undesired effects my selfesteem Not rated yet
I'm 48, been married for 3 years this may. Married to a farmer, small hold family business. Live in middle of nowhere. Not working much, at moment. …

Am I doing the right thing Not rated yet
I have 3 children under 3 and under with my wife. I have been 100% faithful, but my wife had a fling on her hen do, an actually went to meet, stay over …

Wife feels obligated or guilted into having sex Not rated yet
quick background,My wife is Type A personality. Very controlling. Not real happy at her job but never has been happy at her job. She is the happiest when …

Is he cheating?  Not rated yet
We were having septic tank problems, so we lifting the lid and blew the lines out. The next day I walk outside and look down and see a condom floating …

The silent treatment. Not rated yet
A few days ago I met my daughter halfway between our town and hers to return her car that was damaged in an accident while she was home. It was a 9 hour …

How to be a better communicator  Not rated yet
How can I be a better communicator?

Marriage breakdown Not rated yet
I’ve been married for just over 20 years, I was married before, but ended in divorce, my first having a few affairs, we had 4 children and a house, walking …

I don't know if I can forgive her Not rated yet
ok so for a few weeks leading up to Christmas I thought my wife was flirting with somebody ( always secretive with her phone, every time I went near her …

Marriage problems. Not rated yet
Hello all, my problem is as follows, am living in the USA now for three year with my kids and husband who sponsored us here so my two oldest kids are not …

Husband girlfriend Not rated yet
How do i stop my husbands girlfriend from being in my house and throwing out my stuff

My husband has this tendency of insulting me in front of his side of the family Not rated yet
How can i change the way he bahaves.. he always try to insult me in front if family members.. the things we discuss in personal are always a family discussion.. …

Me and my fiancee cannot come up with a living agreement, and our baby will be here in 15 weeks! Not rated yet
So here's the short history of us before I tell you our problem: Tim and I met in December '18, he's the manager overnight and I was just one of his …

MR. Ed Not rated yet
We have been married for 24 years, I am aged 51, and she is aged 58. For the last few years, every time I try to be affectionate or bring up sex, she yells, …

Feels like I am being emotionally bullied by wife  Not rated yet
Hi, my wife and I have been married now for 6 years. She has some emotional or perhaps mental issues bordering on bipolar. I sort of knew this before we …

Helpless Not rated yet
Married 12 years, no children together, but two grown daughters; both with children. The daughters hate me and disrespect me in public; refuse to come …

Girlfriend flirting with someone else Not rated yet
I will try to be brief. I am 46, my gf is a 37 single mom (2 kids)…few months ago she went to a club with some girls, i found out that she ended up …

Conflict over hanging portraits Not rated yet
My spouse wants to hang a portrait of his side of the family in the house and I want to wait until we have a portrait of my side. He said I'm being petty. …

Controlling husband Not rated yet
My husband is very controlling. He tracks me with my phone. I can't do anything or go anywhere without his approval...otherwise, I'm cheating. I've …

Marriage problems Not rated yet
Good Morning. Husband married 5 years 1 child. Recently my wife and I are at each other's throats. Our sex life is non existence. Yesterday we were …

Trips to visit family result in arguments Not rated yet
My husband (47) and I (52) moved 500 miles away from home. His dad (73) and only family now lives with us but my family is back home. I always go home …

Something is off between my boyfriend and his son’s girlfriend  Not rated yet
I would like to ask, as a women who is in her late thirty’s, I have started feeling a bit self-conscious about the way I have aged below the waist. In …

My wife is everything, but I think she feels like nothing.  Not rated yet
To whoever can help or at least shed a ray of light at the end of this tunnel, I’ve been married to my wife for almost 9 years now. We have three …

To leave or not to leave Not rated yet
Hi, I'm new to all this but thought I would give it a go. My husband and I have been together for 22 years, married for 16. We tried ivf over a spell …

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Emotionally unavailable and verbally abusive Not rated yet
I am remarried and been married for 6 years. My husband over most of our marriage barely speaks a word,shows no emotion,never jokes or laughs. I can't …

No communication no affection help please Not rated yet
I’m with my hubby 16 years married 12 .. 3 kids .. I’m so incredibly lonely in my marriage .. no affection, no intimacy, no romance , it’s crushing my …

My husband threatens me with divorce when he’s angry Not rated yet
My husband and I have what I think to be a pretty good marriage. We have been together 8yrs, married for 4, and have two young children. We argue a couple …

Marriage Issues... Not rated yet
My wife and I have been married for quite some time and our relationship has never been good. We are at the point where we can barely stand one another …

Falling apart Not rated yet
Been married close to 20 years and everything is falling apart. Has been for many of those years. No emotional support, money problems, always playing …

Falling asleep on the highway Not rated yet
Hello, I am having a problem with my partner waking me up all hours of the night. I do not know what to do, no matter how much I ask him not to wake me …

Ex Wife troubles Not rated yet
My husband’s ex wife won’t accept that he is not her husband. She acts like she is still his wife and our marriage isn’t real. She even came to our house …

Dishonesty Not rated yet
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I know it's wrong but I feel it's justified. Am I wrong?  Not rated yet
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My Marriage is in real trouble and she has shut me out. Not rated yet
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I caught my husband flirting via text and expects me to just get over it... Not rated yet
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My husband says there is no hope. Not rated yet
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Indifferent Not rated yet
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Ex girlfriend and mother in law  Not rated yet
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My boyfriend of 8 years doesn't like me anymore???  Not rated yet
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He called me names  Not rated yet
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Stuck on what to write in a congrats marriage card (delicate situation) Not rated yet
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Want to propose but.. Not rated yet
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Feel trapped. Not rated yet
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He never offers help or support Not rated yet
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Mother talks disrespectfully towards me still at 27  Not rated yet
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Marriage  Not rated yet
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dealing with in-laws...help!!! Not rated yet
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Ex husband wants to work things out  Not rated yet
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My husband did not work all year Not rated yet
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New marriage needs help Not rated yet
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wife has lost interest in sex Not rated yet
my wife started losing interest in me at around the age of 35 (we're now 60). her idea of lot of sex is 3 or 4 times a year, and we've gone several years …

Difficulties in family relations Not rated yet
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Husband addicted to phone Not rated yet
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How to move past an affair to save my marriage Not rated yet
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Maybe she wasn't the one for me, but deep down I wanted her to be. Why? Not rated yet
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Christmas disaster: my family hates my husband Not rated yet
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Everyone thinks I'm selfish and she's selfless, but it's not that simple. Not rated yet
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Impartial advice Not rated yet
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My Boyfriend that I live with shows ZERO intamacy or interst in me.  Not rated yet
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My wife is treating me like a child Not rated yet
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Lonely, boring marriage to good man Not rated yet
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Am i expecting wrong from hubby? Not rated yet
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Where did the passion go? Is it me?  Not rated yet
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In-laws and the gun Not rated yet
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not sure if I should walk out of marriage Not rated yet
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Compassion and Love Not rated yet
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Stay or go... Not rated yet
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How to stay supportive? Not rated yet
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THE GOOD SON THAT'S HARD TO DEAL WITH Not rated yet
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marriage worries Not rated yet
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Be addicted to make love with xosexdoll Not rated yet
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Help Not rated yet
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Crush problems Not rated yet
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How to trust my fiance with his child's mother(ex) when he has already been proven to be dishonest? Not rated yet
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Wife prior relationship Not rated yet
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Is it me? Not rated yet
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No sex drivin husband Not rated yet
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Husband Stays Out Past 10 at least 2x Week - am I over reacting? Not rated yet
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Change of heart about having a baby together. Not rated yet
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Is it a crush?? Does he like me?? What do I do?? Not rated yet
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i'm confused Not rated yet
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The way he dresses is embarassing, he just doesnt care Not rated yet
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Me and my lies...... Not rated yet
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Unhappy in marriage Not rated yet
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How to explain it to wife Not rated yet
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Am I worng Not rated yet
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My husband has turned against me Not rated yet
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Shall i give him another chance Not rated yet
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Is this a Break or is this over? Not rated yet
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having relationship problems with my children Not rated yet
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Financial issues causing marital problems Not rated yet
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Disrespected SAHM Not rated yet
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I'chbinnichts Not rated yet
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Such a bad situation !! Not rated yet
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Ok, this is a new one for me Not rated yet
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My husband has changed! Is it worth working on? Not rated yet
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My marriage has failed..I want out but he's thinking we can fix it Not rated yet
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Need to save my relation with my husband  Not rated yet
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The Monster my husband created with my help. Not rated yet
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I am confused Not rated yet
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11 year relationship  Not rated yet
me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 years. he lives 45 minutes away and it has always been me going over there on saturday night till sunday. …

my bf/daughters father has tried to take ownership of me! Not rated yet
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My dad tried to seduce my husband Not rated yet
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What should I do?  Not rated yet
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What should I do?!?!? Not rated yet
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wondering why? Not rated yet
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Is my boyfriend too controlling? And what can I do? Not rated yet
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Loveless Marriage Not rated yet
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She needs to find herself  Not rated yet
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Not ready for children... Not rated yet
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Why did he suddenly break up with me? Not rated yet
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A bad break up, what to do next Not rated yet
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Confused girl Not rated yet
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boyfriend broke up with me  Not rated yet
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Controlling girlfriend? Help! Not rated yet
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Other Happy Couples :( Not rated yet
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Not thought of Not rated yet
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i lyed to my girlfriend Not rated yet
I went to Monte casino mall for some drinks. then I met her friend, had drinks together and I did not tell her about it. now she ask me for space.

My relationship with my ex boyfriend...Need serious help? Not rated yet
I'm 24,F..I met my ex bf when I was 15. It was the first day of my tuition. I entered the class and the only available seat was next to him so I sat there …

Am I the weakest link? Should I fight for him or leave? Not rated yet
I am 32 and a mother of a very cute 10 month old boy. My husband loves him a lot and the baby is already fancy him than me. But the problem is my husband …

Rinse Repeat........this is getting sureal. Not rated yet
...........Again here I go, a place for me to rant and rave. A safe place to voice my opinions and thoughts with out be yelled at. And made to feel as …

need help Not rated yet
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Homemade sex tape  Not rated yet
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Feeling like I'm nothing short of trapped... Not rated yet
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confused and upset Not rated yet
I have been married for five years, my husband goes out 7 days of the week and comes home late, he talks down on me and never appreciates me.

No more affection Not rated yet
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i think my boyfriend is cheating on me Not rated yet
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Does he love me? Not rated yet
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Just Need Advice Not rated yet
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Girlfriend can't think about a relationship right now  Not rated yet
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What do I do Not rated yet
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Facebook Message endangers my marriage! Help us!!! Not rated yet
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lying,deceitful men, and men that are users Not rated yet
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Innocent relationship? Not rated yet
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my BF and I get along fabulously but he isnt interested in Sex Not rated yet
I have not met anyone else that is so easy to be around and he is really like my best friend... BUT... When he got to the point to try getting physical …

Don't Know What to Do. Not rated yet
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HELP Not rated yet
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lionessoflove Not rated yet
i do everything mostly on my own... i love people life and animals... i am very intelligent and kind-hearted, but around people i constantly feel insecure …

Sleeping with the enemy?!....... Not rated yet
I met my husband almost six years ago. We met on MySpace, but only became friends at first. Only after 3 months of dating, we decided to get married. Within …

My amazing one night Not rated yet
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Prince Charming to Prince Fear Not rated yet
My husband and I dated for 14 months before we were married. In that time he was affectionate, generous, protective and spent a lot of his time with me. …

unhappy relationship :-( Not rated yet
I have been unhappy in my 12 year relationship, with 2 kids, for around 5 yrs ..... For the past 5 years, every couple of months, i would break down n …

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I moved to another country for a guy who turned out to be abusive. Not rated yet
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35 years! Not rated yet
I have been married for 35 years, and during these years my husband has never liked sex, and would go months without any sex. About five years ago I noticed …

what to do? Not rated yet
i married this woman for 8 years. during that times, she went overseas and met her ex-boyfriend and bring his pictures in my house. this guy's pictures …

Five Years with my "First Love" Not rated yet
It will be almost five years since I met this person. We were only fifteen when we first starting dating. Of course i though it was true love and maybe …

what do I do... Not rated yet
Hi,I am engaged. And my fiancee is a wonderful man but he attacks me with emotional and verbal insults. I have told him and even cried that it hurts me …

Help Not rated yet
I've been in a relationship with a woman now for about four years. I'm 44 and she is 47. When it first started out it was like fireworks, the love of a …

After 4 Years I Finally Realize I'm in an Abusive Relationship Not rated yet
My wife and I have been together for nearly 20 years. After many years of happiness, about 4 years ago our relationship starting turning very negative. …

Not sure about anything anymore. Is it me? Not rated yet
i met my partner 6 yrs ago. He was my friend's brother. She told me he liked me, and didn't seem to have a problem with dating him; that was until i did …

My Brother-In-Law's wife is out to sabotage our family.... Not rated yet
My brother-in-law just married a woman that the rest of the family, (including my husband who is his brother, their parents and grandparents) thinks is …

Teetering on the edge of I don't know what - but I'm tired Not rated yet
Tired. I will try to be brief. Married 20+ years. One child who is late teens now. We definitely got married too young. Husband - has always been a control …

DESEPATE WHERE DID MY STORY GO? Not rated yet
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Marriage or not? Not rated yet
We have been dating for 2 years...I told him that the plan I have for myself is to get married, and since he did not share the same value of marriage....we …

Really sad Not rated yet
Hi, I'm a high school senior, and my boyfriend and i recently broke up over me asking him for his facebook password.. We met in freshman year and we been …

Stressed  Not rated yet
I have been with my boyfriend for a year a half. We have a 5 month old son. He doesn't hit me but does talk down to me, for instance. I just started …

My husband has gone overboard this time with verbal abuse over an argument Not rated yet
I've been married for 12 years. I have two children. 12 and 7 years old. I have never been able to rely on my husband. He can't keep a job and he doesn't …

My Wife Is Never Home. Not rated yet
My wife is going out daily till 3, 4 or sometimes 8 in the morning. Things were good until I asked her to spend more time with me. Now she says she will …

My girlfriend was raped ... and it's not over... Not rated yet
My girlfriend was raped. They threw her in a van and raped her. Told her if she told anyone, they would kill her family. They belong to a gang, pretty …

Continuous Lies... Not rated yet
I have been married for nearly 6 yrs and love my hubby dearly. 2 yrs ago I found a bank bill with a florist name on it, even though my husband had sent …

~Like a single mother,even though i'm still married.~ Not rated yet
Actually, Me & my husband have been married for about 12 years. And ever since our adorable daughter was born over 4 years ago, i feel like i am a single …

We don't understnd each other... Not rated yet
I am in a relationship, and it seems we r not understanding each other, coz my fiancé says that I concerned with issues that do not help in our relationship. …

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