Controlling husband

by anonymous

I've been married for 30 years, have 2 sons & grandchildren & is very unhappy in my marriage. he is very controlling with everything including finances food checking my phone and reading my messages doesn't call me by my name, its just YOU. he works, I have disabilities heart problems, anxiety & depression copd, diabetics type 2. he even tries to tell me to change my hair colour. he gives me no money he is quite wealthy.

I'm so unhappy & hurt how someone who once was so close can be so evil. he's also cheated on me in the past while I was having heart surgery.

is anyone else going through this or is it just me?

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Eugene Kayser, lic. Marriage & Family Therapist

418 Stump Rd., Montgomeryville, PA 18936


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