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Crying in my own honeymoon

by GC23

I have known my partner for 4.5 years. At the beginning everything was awesome, but 6 months into our relationship the fights started and they haven’t pretty much stopped. Fast forward 4 years I am sitting in an amazing bungalow in a dreamy resort crying because my husband couldn’t have sex with me, why? Because he prefers porn and masturbating himself instead of being with me (on our honeymoon!!).. 5 days, was all I asked for....


I am crying and feeling hurt and what he tells me is that he made the wrong choice but that is my fault that I am sad and hurt about it... What hurts me the most is that this happens during our honeymoon. Am I wrong for being hurt and sad by this?

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