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dealing with in-laws...help!!!

by Anonymous

Good day. I would just like to conduct a survey mostly for married couples living on their own.

How often do you or your partner speak and see your family (parents/siblings/ etc)?

My husband can't stop talking to his family almost everyday and keeps going to his moms place almost every weekend. It may not be a big deal for some but even when we would live together before getting married, that's how he has always been. He assured me that things would change once we get married but it hasn't. I don't feel like we're married. It feels more like he's just playing house.

Just asking for some insights. Thanks.

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