I am an Indian girl I got married to my husband in jan 2017 . After few days I got to know his behavior was not proper then after a research on internet I got to know that my husband has traits of borderline personality disorder. Then suddenly I came to know I got pregnant for which I was not ready cause of instability in our relationship so I wanted to go for an abortion but my mom in law n others were very much against that as its an evil act & I told them about our unstable relationship etc & somehow I underwent this situation though was mentally disturbed . My mom in law doesn’t treat me the way she treats my husbands sister in law which makes me feel depressed and she has stop talking to my husband cause even he got that feeling from his mom as she considers his sister in law over him ..when spoke to her about this she stop talking to him & still she is not talking to him . Always show tantrums & tell us bad words and mention that we have done abortion for which all of them might get punish and always try to suppress me indirectly ..
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