by anonymous

My husband and I married june of 2018. Bought an house that year and had a baby jan 2019. I was honestly happy. Until I went through his phone one night. I saw where he was looking up ex girlfriend repeatedly. Not to mention there's a box of trinkets and photos of deceased teenage gf in my house.Confronted him he saw no issue with this matter.

He then went onto looking her up for his grandmother and they looked at photos of her and her child with her husband. Same day sent this chick a message on messenger for his aunt then deleted, said she didn't respond. My thought on this issue is if he wanted to keep up with her he should of stayed with her. And as far as the box of stuff of the ex ex, I feel some type of way.

Am I wrong for not accepting this behavior.

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