Failed marriage ?

by Siddhartha

I am 40 years old male. I live with my parents. I got married in 2015. We have our daughter in 2017.

Now the issue is that my spouse is working and she doesn't help in daily household work. She doesn't respect my parents. My income is limited however I didn't ask any financial support from her. But she scolds me for my income and wants monthly allowance even though her income is more than me. Literally we rarely involved in sexual activity since my daughter's birth.

I am in mild depression due to all this. Also worried about daughters future so I do not want to take divorce. Please help me out and provide some guidance.

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