Husband too close to his sister in law.

by Jule
(India)

Need help. I am breaking down emotionally and mentally. I feel my husband doesn't love me anymore.


We've been married for 3 years now. He is working abroad and hence comes home only twice a year. He has always been close to his brother's wife. She's younger and more good looking than me. All my husband's relatives treat her as if she is Jesus. My husband gives her full attention and focus whenever he is talking. A room full of people and he will be looking only at her when he is speaking. He asks her for opinions, suggestions and whatnot. I am invisible to him. He never and i mean never looks at me when he is talking. Always at his sister in law. It has always been like this and I've ignored it.

Me and my husband barely talk. He is uncomfortable in my presence. He takes me for granted. I am pregnant right now and extremely prone to mood swings. All this is adding to my pressure.
I don't mind him talking to her but when he behaves like i don't even exist, it hurts.

I haven't confronted him with what i am feeling.
Any thoughts or comments. Am i making a mountain out of a molehill?

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