I am confused

by Jennifer
(Brampton, Canada)

I am cheating to my bf and I feel bad about it. Me and my partner were been together for 3 years but we don't have kids. Me and my partner stop having sex for almost 3 years now. I wanted to have kids.

I am not happy with my relationships right now but I don't want to hurt my partner. I cheated because he stop treating me well before. I was upset because I doesn't feel loved. I met a guy who makes me feel special and being loved. He wanted us to be together but I am confused. I don't know what to do please help me.

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