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Is falling in love with a married woman a sin?

by anonymous

I don’t know when did this start. I just woke up one day feeling something with my doctor. At first, I thought I just admired her because she is so smart and gorgeous and young. She is my definition of perfect. Peru ladies are really captivating from their petite body frames to their tanned-skin. Little did I know, what I feel inside gets deeper each day. I always found myself visiting in her clinic and faking illness.


I don’t know if this is an infatuation or love already. However, it was late when I realized she’s married because everyone is calling her missus and not miss. Is it wrong to fall in love with a committed woman? Is this sin already?






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