is my wife cheatng?

by anonymous

my wife is the mother of two and 40 plus but I suspect she is attracted to her colleague. I have installed spy software in her mobile and monitoring her activities in the office and I can feel the way she is talking, laughing, and getting close to, all indicating she is signaling to this guy(who is 5 years younger than her). she is not revealing any sign of it with me, and our relationship is, at least from my side, good. She is not having conversations after office, not connected via any social site, no sign or proof at all.

I am confused, how can I make sure she is flirting or they are just friends?

Click here to post comments

Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. How? Simply click here to return to Relationship and Counseling Forum.

Eugene Kayser, lic. Marriage & Family Therapist

418 Stump Rd., Montgomeryville, PA 18936


If you would like to receive the Couples Guide Newsletter containing articles on relationships, please sign up below.

Visit  The Relationship Forum  to get and give advice on your relationship issues.

If you're struggling with your relationship, this is the place to talk about it!
Our counselors will answer your questions.
And you, our readers, can offer advice from your experience.

"You gave us counseling without making either one of us feel that you were taking sides.
You always maintained your impartiality with us. You encouraged Rita to be more assertive in stating what she wanted to get from your counseling sessions, as well as what she wanted to get from the relationship.
You taught both of us better communication between ourselves, which lead to an emotional comfort level between us that didn't exist before.
You took control of the direction of the session if things were not moving along.
Thanks so much
for helping us."

Rita and Mark

Eugene Kayser, MA, MFT's profile on the Gottman Referral Network