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by angela a.
(chicago)

I have been with my guy for over 7 years now and he still had no job. recently he got back in school. now he saying he about to get money and everybody asking him they know he is going to leave me but we have two children... one is his and the other child is not his. but he call me all types of names and be trying to

Show favoritism to the other child.

So he got this girl now who he say is just a friend, but she sending him pictures in her panties and bra. what do you think he is doing, because when i want to go outside, he want to know my every move, where i am at and things.

please help me cause i don't know any more

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