Marriage difficulty

by Martin
(Ireland )

My wife and I just had our 1st child a baby boy, she and I just can't agree with anything at the moment and on top of things she in hospital not well. Seems like anything I say is not rite. I trying my best, her mum has baby cause I'm try to balance work and seeing her a traveling to our baby too. I take baby to here we get on when he's there but after he's gone the where back to not agree and not getting on. Can someone tell what can do/try or help I just what my marriage back to what it was like where just married a year a week ago.

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