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by Kenneth
(Cape town)

Good Morning.

Husband married 5 years 1 child.
Recently my wife and I are at each other's throats.
Our sex life is non existence.
Yesterday we were unpacking boxes and throwing stuff away.
I came across a packet of photos from before we even met when she was younger maybe 22.
A couple of the negatives are of her in x rated positions with her then boyfriend.

We talked about sending each other or taking pics of each other but she never wants to.

Why am I jealous over these pics.

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