Married and lonely

by Naomi william
(Australia )

I've been married for 5 years, my husband doesn't talk to me, not like we're fighting. But he confides in outsiders more than me. I don't know anything about his business or plans. He prefers to talk to my mother or sisters or his friends more than me. I hear about his plans from my family. I have told my mother and sisters to stop talking to him but they won't listen. I feel so lonely.

Like for example, my husband has plans to move to a better area but he told my family before me. He's starting a fish farm and he told my sisters, especially my younger sister.
Is this normal?

I feel like a maid, I only cook for him. He will just enter the house and say where's my food. He will eat and go and watch ball and sleep. We don't really have sex even.

We haven't had s * in 2 months ,what should I do?