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by Paula
(TN12 6AJ. Uk)

Im married to the most loving giving man of almost 30years.

Just recently my husband has been going through what I can only sumise is a mid life crisis. He,s 53 7years younger than me. He lost a valuable job he loved doing and in the time he was unemployed for found himself escaping in watching animee. In turn this has disturbed me . We've come to a log head situation and when I asked him to compromise his time on his phone when im at evening work he,s response was, whatever. He,s not talking to me now . Im lost, feelings of detachment emotions running high for me. Im feeling to leave him alone let him process or do I drop him a letter. Letting him know, hey I love you, and when your ready to talk im here?

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