Relationship in crisis

by anonymous

Not sure where to start. I don't know where to turn. I think my marriage is at an end but I don't want it to be. But my husband isn't a sort it out kind of guy. It just constantly ends in arguments because he tells me I'm talking rubbish.

The arguments or back turning can last days. At this moment it's lasted 4 days. We are in separate rooms of the house. He's just doing whatever on his phone instead of talking to me. Then he wonders why I dig my heels in even more. I've given all I can and get nothing back emotionally at all. He puts me down then moans when I have an issue with it. Help.

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