Should i move again so my husband can see his son more?
I have been with my husband for 6 years; his son is 7. My husband is in the army and has been seeing his son one to two weekends a month when his job allows.
I gave up jobs and friends to move to different cities five times now, and we are currently living in my home city. We have been trying for a family and are on the waiting list for ivf.
I have always said i want to be near my family when we have a baby. Now that the ex-wife has a new partner and family, she has been causing dramas. One minute we can't take him on holiday and we can't see him. Then we can.
The latest is that she wants my husband to leave the army and move four hours drive away to have a shared residence. She has messed about so much in the past and is only doing this now because it suits her.
My problem is i have told my husband from the start i don't want to live in his hometown. And now we are happy and settled here, why should we move again?
Am i being selfish or not for wanting to be close to my parents when we start a family? Please help me!