by Sian

I really don’t know whether it is me anymore. I feel he deliberately winds me up on purpose and is so nasty. As a for instance we eventually went out last night after him saying he wasn’t going to bother. We ended up having a good time.

When we were coming home we were talking to people on the train - women. He is a flirt but not as bad as he used to be. I feel he embarrasses me by saying my age, then jokes I’m the best thing to have happened to her, I could trade her in. He says I cannot have a laugh and I am a snob but Do I really imagine the looks on the faces of people when they look at me in disbelief at what he says.

Am I to sensitive.

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