by Nikki
(PA)
My husband and I have been together 16 years, married 8 years. It wasn’t until after we were married he began to express interest in anal sex. Anal was never on my radar so I just told him it’s not happening. He mentioned it more often so about 4 years ago I agreed to try it. It was painful as hell but I tried again thinking I just needed to relax. But I still didn’t like it so I told him I didn’t want to do it again.
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