Spouce cheating

by Mali
(London )

I found out my husband was flirting on Facebook with women. When I confronted him he got nothing to say and he admitted it.

I’m very depressed and don’t know what to do.
He has been a wonderful father to our kids and a wonderful husband to me and now I found this. He always loved me and i never thought for a second that he would do such things. i don’t want to leave him, at the same time I don’t want to see him.

He was so apologetic. Everyday I struggle with my emotions it been so hard.
Excuse my English

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