We don't understnd each other...

by Kate

I am in a relationship, and it seems we r not understanding each other, coz my fiancé says that I concerned with issues that do not help in our relationship. Well I ask things for my knowledge only. He loves me so much and I can tell he loves me. He does not want to be asked anything regarding people. But as for me I like to know how people live. l like to visit friends. He does not etc. I think he is living in another world of his own. Please advise me. Kate

I forgot to say he even called me a boring woman after an argument.

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Eugene Kayser, lic. Marriage & Family Therapist

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