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What should I do?!?!?

by Karla Jackie M.
(California)

Well, my boyfriend I currently just got back together, due to me supposedly breaking up with him, but anyways. He has said he has been hurt, but he made up his mind.

He said he will get back with me. Then he gave me these rules: 1. Never leave me again 2. Never suggest a break. 3. When I want a picture of you, you have me to send. 4. Help me when I need to(**sexual**). Then I mentioned to him to please not be like my father or other guys out there, and he said he would never.

We kept talking all lovely, then he starts accusing me of calling him an a**hole, a jerk because I saying that he would physically hurt me. But I didn't, and I don't know what to do.

Is it my fault, did I say something wrong?? Someone please help me!! It's Important!!


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