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break up of 11 years  
i am 31 and my so-called ex is 41. we broke up in august but we have been together for 11 years. after he left me, we still talked every day. and now …

My husband is cyber cheating in secret 
I am not sure what to do… I just found out that my husband has been talking with a bunch of women online as well as sharing genital/full body pictures …

MARRIED FEMALE 
MY HUSBANDS OF 17 YEARS IS HAVING AN AFFAIR AND WANTS A DIVORCE. WE HAVE A SPECIAL DAUGHTER WHO HAS DOWNS SYNDROME AND IS TWELVE YEARS OLD. HE IS ALSO …

Should I stay married???? 
Long story shortened. . . I've been married for 10 1/2 yrs and have 4 kids with him. We have had a horrible marriage. Abuse of all sorts, separated more …

Pregnant Woman 
I've dated my partner for 3 months, then got pregnant. After that he lost his job, was arrested came out of jail, seemed to be lost in life, no longer …

What is the problem ? 
i have been with this guy for 5 yrs. just in the past 8 months he hasn't wanted to have sex or even kiss me like he used to do.

My relationship overall with my boyfriend 
It's a long story, but here we go. It all started two years ago ... when i first met my bf we just automatically hit it off!! Even though we only had one …

He's just not that into me... 
I am 25. He is 31. After 3 and a half years, I ended the relationship for multiple reasons, but mainly because his actions simply don't show that he cares …

All Guilty 
Hey there, I am in a relationship from the past year and we have already decided to get married. The problem here is that he knows about only one …

Is it normal to be neglected by his family and friends? 
When ur in a relationship, aren't u supposed to be close to the family and have mutual friends? Me n my bf have been together 3 years on and off. We've …

TIRED 
TONIGHT MY BOYFRIEND FLIPPED BECAUSE I DID NOT MAKE DINNER AND THEN TOOK IT OUT ON MY SON

Am I The Crazy One? 
My boyfriend and i have been together for 2years now. The first year was amazing and he was everything to me. We couldn't get enough of each other. We …

Am I Wrong? 
My boyfriend of two years just asked me for space on Saturday because he feels verbally abused by me. It came about when he didn't answer my calls the …

Am Confused and Devastated 
Am a married woman and I got married June 2011. Exactly 3 months after my wedding, my husband traveled to USA for his MSc. Since then I haven't seen him. …

I Feel So Betrayed 
My partner of ten years has become best buddies with my ex-partner, the father of my two adult children. He has even employed him. And i have also discovered …

Forty-something and I know what I SHOULD do, but afraid to do it. 
I have been in a positive relationship with a wonderful man for four years. I love him, but I realize my love is starting to deteriorate, at least I think …

Marital Problem 
I feel very depressed. Mine is a long story. I am 26 yrs, Indian, married for 5 yrs and have 2 kids. Our marriage is been through problems since the …

Married But Not Married 
I married two years ago, but at one year and 2 months of marriage we are separated. In this relationship we not have any kids, which is a good thing. …

I Feel Depressed 
I just got married last Feb., and I had a baby; he's now 5 months old. I have been staying at home watching the baby. My husband has been resenting …

My Husband Has Retired at 46 
My husband of 16 years just resigned from his job, cashed out his pension and spends his days washing and ironing. He is irritable and angry and open …

BF loves me (really), but doesnt want to ever get married :( 
I have been in an exclusive relationship with my BF of 3 yrs, who is a wonderful man to me. He loves me dearly, as I do him. He has made me a part of his …

Should i move again so my husband can see his son more? 
I have been with my husband for 6 years; his son is 7. My husband is in the army and has been seeing his son one to two weekends a month when his job …

It happened a year ago. I still feel ashamed and upset about this issue.. 
Hope to hear your point of view on this relationship story. I wish to bring this up even though it happened a year ago.. The guy who is your boyfriend.... …

Break Up 
i almost broke up with my fiance 1 week ago because of my son, which ls not his. The reason is i told him how my son has started to do things which are …

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Abused or just a needy partner? 
So when is a needy partner an abuser? Having just answered yes to 20 out of the 25 "am i abused" questions, i think i can say i am being controlled. …

To leave or not to leave . . . that is the question- 
My husband of nearly 1-1/2 years has lost his position in the Pacific. He would like to begin practicing in New York where he is also licensed. He has …

NON-PERSON 
I feel like a non-person in my husbands life. He is 33 years old, I am 35. He would rather spend his days with his buddies than he would with me. I look …

Don't Know What to Do. Not rated yet
I have tried several times to write my story here. It's 20 years in the making. And when it comes down to it, no matter how short or how long I keep it, …

HELP Not rated yet
I've been in marriage for the past five years. We have two kids, the youngest is 8 months now, the oldest is 4 years old. My situation is that I came …

lionessoflove Not rated yet
i do everything mostly on my own... i love people life and animals... i am very intelligent and kind-hearted, but around people i constantly feel insecure …

Sleeping with the enemy?!....... Not rated yet
I met my husband almost six years ago. We met on MySpace, but only became friends at first. Only after 3 months of dating, we decided to get married. Within …

My amazing one night Not rated yet
I've been with my current bf for 8 years. Well he's kinda of a bad bf cuz he is irresponsible, in and out of jail for petty and felonies crimes. None-the-less …

Prince Charming to Prince Fear Not rated yet
My husband and I dated for 14 months before we were married. In that time he was affectionate, generous, protective and spent a lot of his time with me. …

unhappy relationship :-( Not rated yet
I have been unhappy in my 12 year relationship, with 2 kids, for around 5 yrs ..... For the past 5 years, every couple of months, i would break down n …

I moved to another country for a guy who turned out to be abusive. Not rated yet
So when I was 19, I was living in basically hell with my abusive drunk Dad and my disabled brother and dog who he would constantly abuse too. I was jaded …

35 years! Not rated yet
I have been married for 35 years, and during these years my husband has never liked sex, and would go months without any sex. About five years ago I noticed …

what to do? Not rated yet
i married this woman for 8 years. during that times, she went overseas and met her ex-boyfriend and bring his pictures in my house. this guy's pictures …

Five Years with my "First Love" Not rated yet
It will be almost five years since I met this person. We were only fifteen when we first starting dating. Of course i though it was true love and maybe …

what do I do... Not rated yet
Hi,I am engaged. And my fiancee is a wonderful man but he attacks me with emotional and verbal insults. I have told him and even cried that it hurts me …

Help Not rated yet
I've been in a relationship with a woman now for about four years. I'm 44 and she is 47. When it first started out it was like fireworks, the love of a …

Am I in a abusive relationship? Not rated yet
Am I in a abused relationship with my husband? I am a person who talks a lot but all of a sudden very quiet. My husband is a very caring man and responsible …

After 4 Years I Finally Realize I'm in an Abusive Relationship Not rated yet
My wife and I have been together for nearly 20 years. After many years of happiness, about 4 years ago our relationship starting turning very negative. …

Not sure about anything anymore. Is it me? Not rated yet
i met my partner 6 yrs ago. He was my friend's brother. She told me he liked me, and didn't seem to have a problem with dating him; that was until i did …

My Brother-In-Law's wife is out to sabotage our family.... Not rated yet
My brother-in-law just married a woman that the rest of the family, (including my husband who is his brother, their parents and grandparents) thinks is …

Teetering on the edge of I don't know what - but I'm tired Not rated yet
Tired. I will try to be brief. Married 20+ years. One child who is late teens now. We definitely got married too young. Husband - has always been a control …

DESEPATE WHERE DID MY STORY GO? Not rated yet
I JUST SPENT ALMOST 2 HOURS WRITING I HAD TO CHECK HOW TO SPELL DESPERATE CAME BACK MY STORY IS GONE HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO GET ADVICE NOW? Jennifer... …

Marriage or not? Not rated yet
We have been dating for 2 years...I told him that the plan I have for myself is to get married, and since he did not share the same value of marriage....we …

Really sad Not rated yet
Hi, I'm a high school senior, and my boyfriend and i recently broke up over me asking him for his facebook password.. We met in freshman year and we been …

Stressed  Not rated yet
I have been with my boyfriend for a year a half. We have a 5 month old son. He doesn't hit me but does talk down to me, for instance. I just started …

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My husband has gone overboard this time with verbal abuse over an argument Not rated yet
I've been married for 12 years. I have two children. 12 and 7 years old. I have never been able to rely on my husband. He can't keep a job and he doesn't …

My Wife Is Never Home. Not rated yet
My wife is going out daily till 3, 4 or sometimes 8 in the morning. Things were good until I asked her to spend more time with me. Now she says she will …

My girlfriend was raped ... and it's not over... Not rated yet
My girlfriend was raped. They threw her in a van and raped her. Told her if she told anyone, they would kill her family. They belong to a gang, pretty …

Continuous Lies... Not rated yet
I have been married for nearly 6 yrs and love my hubby dearly. 2 yrs ago I found a bank bill with a florist name on it, even though my husband had sent …

~Like a single mother,even though i'm still married.~ Not rated yet
Actually, Me & my husband have been married for about 12 years. And ever since our adorable daughter was born over 4 years ago, i feel like i am a single …

We don't understnd each other... Not rated yet
I am in a relationship, and it seems we r not understanding each other, coz my fiancé says that I concerned with issues that do not help in our relationship. …

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